Although the moment of your proposal is sure to be one of the most thrilling of your life, the preparation process isn't even close to being stressful. There are the whys and wherefores, the 'when' and 'how' questions, and, perhaps most daunting, the selection of The Ring. How can a single piece of jewelry express everything you've ever wanted to say?
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Deciding on a Budget
The antiquated 'Two Months' Salary Rule' once proposed that one's significant other sets aside the equivalent of two months' pay and splurge it all on a diamond engagement ring. However, priorities have shifted over time. The average person living in the twenty-first century has a wide range of options for how to spend their money, from paying for university education to easier access to international travel and skyrocketing housing costs.
Be honest with yourself, create a budget that works for you, and don't feel obligated to deviate from it. This will serve as a consistent reference point for you and your jeweler as you shop.
Don't Do It Alone
We think that informed decisions are the best ones to make, even though some suitors relish the idea of catching everyone off guard. The most important consideration when shopping for an engagement ring is the person for whom you are purchasing it. They'll be wearing it for the rest of their lives, after all.
If you've already discussed engagement with your partner, you could ask them for a list of their engagement ring preferences and dislikes.
If you prefer that they remain unaware of your plans, seek advice from a trusted friend or family member. A second opinion is invaluable when making a big decision like this one - and it might just give you a new perspective.
Three Ways to Buy an Engagement Ring
Choosing a vintage rainbow opal ring is a wise way to celebrate an existing beautiful engagement ring from both an environmental and economic standpoint. Furthermore, second-hand jewelry stores open the door to a glittering world of one-of-a-kind treasures, unlike anything they've ever seen before. However, not everyone is enthralled by the idea of wearing a pre-loved ring, possibly because it feels as if it wasn't designed specifically for them or perhaps due to superstitious concerns about its connotations. Before you decide to shop vintage, it's critical that you consult with your partner or someone who knows them well to gauge their feelings on the subject.
Most engagement ring jewelers offer pre-designed blueprints for collection engagement rings. If you need to propose quickly, ready-to-wear collection rings are ideal. Meanwhile, made-to-order collection rings take a little longer to arrive but allow for minor customizations like ring size and gemstone size.
By working with a custom jeweler to design an engagement ring from the ground up, you can be sure that the ring you kneel before your loved one will be entirely one-of-a-kind and made especially for them.
The Engagement Ring and Wedding Band Will Be Worn Together
It's understandable if the prospect of planning a wedding makes the hairs on the back of your neck stand up. After all, you still haven't mastered the proposal! When selecting an engagement ring, keep in mind that it will eventually be worn alongside a wedding band.
An aquamarine engagement ring with a particularly low-lying or ornate gemstone setting, such as a halo design, may create awkward conditions for any future ring that wishes to sit perfectly flush with it. This may not be a problem if your partner is a creative soul with an open mind because shaped, open-fronted, and bespoke wedding ring designs are always an option. However, if it's possible that your partner would prefer to commemorate your marriage with a simple band, this should influence your decision when selecting the gemstone setting for their engagement ring. Raised claw settings are the most common to pair with neighboring rings. You can read more about the advantages and disadvantages of various setting styles here.
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